The word "toast" derives from "tosta," which means a toasted piece of bread. In the past, in royal families of France and England, a small piece of toasted bread was placed in a glass of wine, which the monarch would consume. Today, we raise a toast without the toasted bread, but still with champagne or wine, never with vodka, beer, or brandy.
Who?
The first toast is proposed by the father of the bride, followed by a toast from the father of the groom. The next toast can either be given by a senior family member of the newlyweds or the best man. It's also encouraged for other guests to give toasts during the wedding celebration.
How?
♡ We stand while giving the toast. Keep it brief and to the point.
♡ The speaker should stand, introduce themselves, and make sure not to have their back turned to anyone.
♡ Avoid giving toasts during the main course, soups, or before appetizers are served.
♡ Ensure that guests have their glasses filled.
♡ After the speech, the speaker should raise their glass (but never before) and nod to signal the end of the speech.
☞ Remember, there shouldn't be too many toasts, and they shouldn't be overly lengthy
When?
The first toast, also known as the welcome toast, takes place right after the newlyweds are welcomed with bread and salt, before they take their seats. After seating, the floor should be given to the father of the bride for his toast.
